A wall of mirror, in two sections, ceiling to floor and wall to wall, is showing dark spots something is not right. It is is a lounge not a bathroom where water could get in. My daughter decided it had to go and together we pulled off the thick solid wood frame on one side the other side and top and bottom would not budge. It is screwed into chipboard. Damp chip board, covering a leak , or part of the flood. The project has stopped here as we collect ideas on mirror mirror off the wall. They are becoming more refined. Rather than just hit it with a hammer , now it will be covered first with a sheet a thick bedspread on the floor and then lots of newspaper. Then tape it in sections so the glass can fall in sections. Possibly score it with a glass cutter. The flash of an idea to ring a glazier for the low down on huge removal of glass panels is winning. All this to see the state of the wall behind and the effect of the Melbourne deluge.
It is the New Year 2011 and I am catching up, on one bit of scrap paper was a scribbled ” http://www.pinkstinks.co.uk – pink is ok punk is better.” It was inspiring to see the changes and challenges this UK based group is bringing to the sterotyping of young girls and boys by the media and department stores. For me it brought home the commercialisation of young children’s desires to be like and copy their parents and grandparents in daily activities. I am questioning myself on whether organic blusher and brush was sensible for a seven year old who for the past 2 years has be asking me to buy her ‘make up that won’t give me itchy bits.’
In the seventies first readers come home from school that had Betty in the apron in the kitchen and John sitting reading the paper after work. At least both the male and female children were playing with the dog, but that did not stop the reader returning to school with pasted over changed text and illustrations, including what I like to think of as gender neutral, equal, and what then was called ‘role reversal’. A meeting with the head master,and teacher did not change the reading program drastically overnight. It did allow for some of the early feminist writers and their childrens book to come into the school and be read. It is interesting to note one of the books involved a small girl fighting dragons and it is being read to the third generation right now. (Title …… Author ….to be sourced)
Sometimes I think we have a long way to go and have look at what I have achieved -2 mortgages on four properties today, when my first attempt was met with ‘we don’t lend to women, you can only keep the house if you get your (soon to be ex) husband to allow you to stay on the title.’ He did, but can you imagine my feelings on this issue, when I was the one wanting a house and paying a good share of the mortgage. That is until I was told if you don’t resign we will fire you. You have to stay home and care for the baby. It is not your husband’s job.’ The husband wasn’t working and wanted to care for the baby, I was interested in working. The mortgage had to be paid and good jobs for women were opening up.
This link gives an interesting comparison between the losses of Katrina and Black
Saturday by age, plus the difficulties in preparing individuals for an extreme event. It has some interesting views.
via Dark Matter